The great thing about buttplay is that everyone can participate. No matter your gender or sexuality, everyone has a butt and is free to take part in the joys of the anus. Analingus is basically a fancy word for rim jobs, or when someone uses their tongue to stimulate the opening of the anus. Here, two guys explain what it is they love about getting rimmed. Man A: I date women.
The area around the rectum is prime breeding ground for diseases. In addition to STIs, Hepatitis A and B can also be transmitted easily, so make sure you have both been vaccinated as well. Hair removal, while not necessary, is preferable in order to make sure nothing gets caught in the fuzz when your partner uses the toilet. Have your partner position himself on his hands and knees, doggy style. Begin by gently caressing and kissing the region around the anus including the perineum, the area between the genitals and anus. Make sure to keep your lips wet and use a lot of saliva. Switch it up by alternating between rapidly sliding your tongue down his crack and swirling it around his whole derriere.
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I asked Dr. Kat, clinical sexologist, to provide some tips to make your first tuchus-lingus — whether you are giving or receiving — as good as it can get. Analingus, or rimming, has grown in practice thanks to people wanting to engage in a sexual behavior that's a little taboo. There are some people who are intimidated by the practice and worry about the hygienic nature of it. People find it erotic thanks to the thousands of nerve endings around the anus.